Oh Rena, I'm not a mother, and so I can only imagine how disappointed you are right now.
But let me tell you something. I have a great relationship with my mother. She trusts me. I never gave her the feeling I was doing something wrong... but truth is, when I was young, I've done things she still doesn't know right now. What made me do that? I was young, I had to do my mistakes, I had to do something 'dangerous' just to prove I was a big girl. Your daughter is in that beautiful, strange, messy age when you do the craziest thing.
I'm sure she will not do the same mistake again. And you'll be able to trust her again soon. It just takes time.
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
branchandroot
no subject
Date: 2011-05-31 02:51 pm (UTC)But let me tell you something.
I have a great relationship with my mother. She trusts me. I never gave her the feeling I was doing something wrong... but truth is, when I was young, I've done things she still doesn't know right now.
What made me do that? I was young, I had to do my mistakes, I had to do something 'dangerous' just to prove I was a big girl.
Your daughter is in that beautiful, strange, messy age when you do the craziest thing.
I'm sure she will not do the same mistake again. And you'll be able to trust her again soon.
It just takes time.
Love you ♥ Hugs